Gal : "Wat is our status now?"

Guy : "I love you,  wait til my work is stable & we shall be together."

Gal : "... ..."

Given the above statement, should the girl wait?  There has been no actions e.g holding hands in public or signs to show that they are an item, only empty promises as per above.  Guy only meet gal when he is free.  It may seem like the guy may have another gal other than her, but no, guy is totally oblivious of his surrounding when he is immersed in his work.  Advise?

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Gal : "Wat is our status now?"

Guy : "I love you,  wait til my work is stable & we shall be together."

Gal : "... ..."

Given the above statement, should the girl wait?  There has been no actions e.g holding hands in public or signs to show that they are an item, only empty promises as per above.  Guy only meet gal when he is free.  It may seem like the guy may have another gal other than her, but no, guy is totally oblivious of his surrounding when he is immersed in his work.  Advise?

 

focus on ur own things la.. guy got career mind is better what.. everyday stick to you good meh?

Originally posted by cuddles:

focus on ur own things la.. guy got career mind is better what.. everyday stick to you good meh?

Ya..The thing is, shld she wait for him or she shld give others a chance?  It's the subject of "committment". 

personal space is impt

if you cannot live with the kind of life now, what makes you think you can live this kind of life in the future

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Ya..The thing is, shld she wait for him or she shld give others a chance?  It's the subject of "committment". 

give others a chance ba.. time will tell if you still have feelings for the guy or not..

Originally posted by cuddles:

give others a chance ba.. time will tell if you still have feelings for the guy or not..

Wat abt the guy?  Wat if that is his way of "assuring" his gal that he is sincere?  Im assuming nia...no proof tho'.  

Originally posted by Chris1988:

personal space is impt

if you cannot live with the kind of life now, what makes you think you can live this kind of life in the future

U need to elaborate more, chris1988..Whose personal space?

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Wat abt the guy?  Wat if that is his way of "assuring" his gal that he is sincere?  Im assuming nia...no proof tho'.  

 

U need to elaborate more, chris1988..Whose personal space?

maybe he don't know how to express his feelings.. if he got gf before, then different story.. if not maybe he forgotten the idea of holding hands?

and because he probably is insecure of his own future and job stability, he don't dare to hold your hand or do anything more.

Originally posted by cuddles:

maybe he don't know how to express his feelings.. if he got gf before, then different story.. if not maybe he forgotten the idea of holding hands?

and because he probably is insecure of his own future and job stability, he don't dare to hold your hand or do anything more.

Tat's exactly wat the gal thinks & tat's oso the onli thing tat makes her hard to let go.  She doesnt wanna derive him of his credibilities..& nope, she isnt his 1st.

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Tat's exactly wat the gal thinks & tat's oso the onli thing tat makes her hard to let go.  She doesnt wanna derive him of his credibilities..& nope, she isnt his 1st.

then think about if he's worth your wait? depend on ur age? give yourself 3 months for him.. wait this 3 months, another 3 months to forget him..

so successfully, within half a year if it's not working, it'll be over..

not his first? then I think maybe he keeping his options open still.. again this is dependant on his nature, if flirtatious kind, probably keeping his options open.. if all the while guai guai.. maybe he's just not those kind who shows his affection..

Perhaps..Frenz told her that there is no committments between them & she is free to choose anybody.  But she's too stuborn lar..she believes she shld give the guy a benefit of a doubt..

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Perhaps..Frenz told her that there is no committments between them & she is free to choose anybody.  But she's too stuborn lar..she believes she shld give the guy a benefit of a doubt..

yea.. it depends on how much u willing to believe in him? if not be proactive and test him? like look at him in the eyes.. sometimes you can tell with the look..

Wait 20 years.

That is a sign of true love.

Originally posted by charlize:

Wait 20 years.

 

That is a sign of true love.

lol..

20 yrs.. will show that true love never die.. but you'll wish you're dead instead..

Originally posted by charlize:

Wait 20 years.

 

That is a sign of true love.

 !!

Originally posted by cuddles:

lol..

20 yrs.. will show that true love never die.. but you'll wish you're dead instead..

Damn~I agree with tat. 

You want true love or not?

Then wait 20 years.

Anything less than 20 years is not true love.

Really.

Originally posted by charlize:

You want true love or not?

 

Then wait 20 years.

 

Anything less than 20 years is not true love.

 

Really.

lol.. wth.. charlize always post interesting replies..

Originally posted by charlize:

You want true love or not?

 

Then wait 20 years.

 

Anything less than 20 years is not true love.

 

Really.

Wat is true love anyway?  How can time be measured for true love? 

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Wat is true love anyway?  How can time be measured for true love? 

I also dunno what is true love.

Originally posted by cuddles:

I also dunno what is true love.

Ask Charlize.  He's true love guru. 

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Ask Charlize.  He's true love guru. 

seriously.. I don't know what is love anymore.

Originally posted by cuddles:

seriously.. I don't know what is love anymore.

U can say tat again! 

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Wat is true love anyway?  How can time be measured for true love? 

 I already told you.

Wait 20 years.

Then you will find out what true love is.

Originally posted by charlize:

 I already told you.

 

Wait 20 years.

 

Then you will find out what true love is.

Then i rather believe there is no true love. 

Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

Then i rather believe there is no true love. 

Don't say I never help you.

You're just too lazy to follow good advice.

Originally posted by charlize:

 

Don't say I never help you.

 

You're just too lazy to follow good advice.

Duh~

So may i ask how many true loves hav u experienced oready?