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i gt to know this guy fer yr plus.and we finally get together.bt,we did not last long n finally we broke up.after the break up.then i realise.i really love him alot. and i even wants to get back together with him.but he dun seems to want to get back together.friends has been asking me to give up on him and get another guy.but i simply cant do so.cause i simply love him too much.we still chat often and even go out at times. sometime i really want to tell him that i really love him, but i dont have the courage to do so and i dont know what i can do.ca anybody tell me what i can do?
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Originally posted by Crazylumix:
i gt to know this guy fer yr plus.and we finally get together.bt,we did not last long n finally we broke up.after the break up.then i realise.i really love him alot. and i even wants to get back together with him.but he dun seems to want to get back together.friends has been asking me to give up on him and get another guy.but i simply cant do so.cause i simply love him too much.we still chat often and even go out at times. sometime i really want to tell him that i really love him, but i dont have the courage to do so and i dont know what i can do.ca anybody tell me what i can do?
What is the reason for the breakup ? Will those problems you encounter with this guy.. dissapear after the patch back ? Unlikely....
He loves you.. but hates some of your quirks.. that's why he can't take you back.
Unless both of you takes a 180 degree turn into another person with none of the problems of your previous self... else.. the relationship will always be running in circles.
Like I love my Motorola.. but hates the keypads.. I ain't gonna buy same model after this one breaks. I move on.
That's why there's such a feeling call "nostalgia".
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Dear, for time immemorial, when a boy loves you, he tells you so and he shows you so through his actions. Cheer up. It is quite clear things are over.
I know you like him to bits but since he knows you want to get back together and still, he is not making any effort to get close to you, it is his way of saying he no longer loves you. Just let it sink, so you can heal.
Edited by methanol 28 Aug `08, 2:18AM
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Originally posted by Crazylumix:
i know too.i am trying very hard to let go of him.but each time,when i want to let go.he will come back to my side and be very nice to me.anyway,thanks man.break up problem is both of us needs time.
to methanol:thanks (: aldough he did not says he love me.but in action he did.so what can i do? hais
It is in our nature to want the things we cannot have. Boys, before turning into men, have a knack for being indecisive when it comes to matters of the heart.
What sort of actions did he show?
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hmm.alot. like we use to be together? as in.when i am sick or wat he will be very very concern about me.when i never eat.he will force me.he will fetch me no matter from how far and send me home.all the little little things that he do when we were together.and he will even hug me.like how we use to do so in the pass.
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Originally posted by Crazylumix:
cause,sometimes he will dont care dont care liddat.so will wonder if he loves me anot. and i am puzzled too.
I see. Then you have 2 options.
Either ask him very directly, whether he still wants to be together. Yes or no. Then take it from there.
Or you can move on and get to know other boys. My advice is the latter, like my cousin always said, "In life you only get one shot with one boy, once in your lifetime."
Good luck girl.
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Originally posted by Crazylumix:
i gt to know this guy fer yr plus.and we finally get together.bt,we did not last long n finally we broke up.after the break up.then i realise.i really love him alot. and i even wants to get back together with him.but he dun seems to want to get back together.friends has been asking me to give up on him and get another guy.but i simply cant do so.cause i simply love him too much.we still chat often and even go out at times. sometime i really want to tell him that i really love him, but i dont have the courage to do so and i dont know what i can do.ca anybody tell me what i can do?
What is Love? And what is love to u?? U r probably not used to not havin him by ur side, tat makes u think u love him. Same goes to him too.
Edited by RedizAlertz 28 Aug `08, 10:35AM
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