i have been trying for sometime now... tried being nice n always being around but so far mixed response.... leave me puzzled....can eeryone tell me about how u touched e person u like so that u become a couple???do romantic things?? wait for her at workplace or school everyday?wat?wat?wat?
really nees help here....

touch her with ur sincerity

hard to say... depends on individual......
most impt is the heart.... n feelings...
if she can feels it... n she like u.... wat ever u do she will b touched... if not u r juz irritating her

I can't feel it leh........

Originally posted by FireIce:

touch her with ur sincerity

tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey....

Originally posted by larren:

I can't feel it leh........

ppl serious here n u acting like a .......

Originally posted by thhong22:

hard to say... depends on individual......
most impt is the heart.... n feelings...
if she can feels it... n she like u.... wat ever u do she will b touched... if not u r juz irritating her

i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while???

Originally posted by harryryan:

i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while???

hmm.... possible

Originally posted by larren:

I can't feel it leh........

Cos he is not referring to u mah...alamak...*kokz yr head*

or time not ready ...yet?

Originally posted by harryryan:

tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey....

so i guess perhaps the prob is with her
she is always insecure and afraid tt guys might cheat her or something

so u have to be less lecherous.......give her assurance that u can give her good life and u are are trustworthy

Originally posted by thhong22:

hmm.... possible

than plz kill me cos i really like her alot...

Originally posted by harryryan:

i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while???

Did she act in any special ways? How does she treat u?

Originally posted by harryryan:

tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey....

It's as bad as it sounds now. Least now she opened up jus abit of her heart and said that she's afraid of your sincerity. Least she felt that u ahve tried. Least she did not reject u outright. Continue to be yourself and talk to her more harryryan. She could have a bad relationship u didn't know? That's y she's afraid to open up to a relationship. Yes, talk to her more on the phone.

Good luck.

Originally posted by harryryan:

tried... but sincereity might not be enuff....
she keeps doubting my sincereity...she even asked me whether i chase her cos she look's easy prey....

well... It takes time to prove ur sincerity. There is no short cut. Juz be urself n move her slowly. No point finding a quick way. That's what sincerity is all abt. She may not recover from her previous r/s

Originally posted by harryryan:

i dun even knoe if she likes me or not...very confusing.... if she does not like me....means i have been irritating her all this while???

See, u have to get to know her more. Likewise, she needs to get u better too. Pay yan gan ching mah then the sparks will... explode!

Originally posted by elmoloveyou:

Did she act in any special ways? How does she treat u?

long story but things got better.... she does not reject me as much now.... we go out every week n i bring her supper as n when she needs it.... hope our relationship continues to improve.... but she kind of don't believe me when i praise her....n oh yeah...she tells me alot...even about guys in school who r after her...

confused where our relationship is heading sia....

Originally posted by harryryan:

than plz kill me cos i really like her alot...

gan qing shi bu ke yi mian qiang de.....
n it cannot b rush..... don seem too despo to the gal.....
reali will make things worse.....
gals wanna noe how sincere a guy can b b4 she can commit....
many guys can't..... they juz disappear when the gal told them not now.... cos more understanding is needed
then the guys switch target to another.....
*phew* luckily nv choose those......

Originally posted by xian89:

well... It takes time to prove ur sincerity. There is no short cut. Juz be urself n move her slowly. No point finding a quick way. That's what sincerity is all abt. She may not recover from her previous r/s

ps....previous is not past tense if ya knoe wat i mean....

Originally posted by thhong22:

gan qing shi bu ke yi mian qiang de.....
n it cannot b rush..... don seem too despo to the gal.....
reali will make things worse.....
gals wanna noe how sincere a guy can b b4 she can commit....
many guys can't..... they juz disappear when the gal told them not now.... cos more understanding is needed
then the guys switch target to another.....
*phew* luckily nv choose those......

Quite true.

Originally posted by thhong22:

gan qing shi bu ke yi mian qiang de.....
n it cannot b rush..... don seem too despo to the gal.....
reali will make things worse.....
gals wanna noe how sincere a guy can b b4 she can commit....
many guys can't..... they juz disappear when the gal told them not now.... cos more understanding is needed
then the guys switch target to another.....
*phew* luckily nv choose those......

yup but prob is i might die anytime soon....

got feel? u feel she no feel = no gd u feel she also feel = gd, duno she feel or nt? ask her. she duno n u still wana persist then take tings slowly...dun rush her.. if after 6mths still duno got feel or nt, then move on!

Originally posted by harryryan:

yup but prob is i might die anytime soon....

..dun commit sucide leh.....

sometime, its not just urself....maybe the ger dont wanna fall in love at the moment? maybe the ger is troubled in her thoughts, tey to be a gd friend loh. the ger will always know when a guy like her, when it is so obvious, so dont give the impression of 'pushing' her to love you or going into a r/s loh.

Originally posted by dysFunk:

got feel? u feel she no feel = no gd u feel she also feel = gd, duno she feel or nt? ask her. she duno n u still wana persist then take tings slowly...dun rush her.. if after 6mths still duno got feel or nt, then move on!

...dun rush her..
exact same words she said[/u][/i]